In my case I am the kind of person who accepts the world as it is by acting accordingly to get it involves I think it is vital to be realistic so as not to expose oneself to the worst and keep a chance to be happy. But then, why do we so often lack realism? For three reasons: by ignorance, by error of judgment or by refusal of reality. I don't pretend to have all the answers by being realist . But for people like me, are simply direct and frank with ourselves which allows us or at least in my case not to make false illusions.
(je te suggère d'ajouter quelque example dans ta vie qui ta rendue plus optimiste et après dans la fin m'être "And this is why I'm realist")
